My Car, My Friend

Dear Ford,

On January 28, 2014, I had to give up my car, my friend.  I am trying to convince myself that it was time.  It’s almost crazy – to think about having a relationship with a car – and I didn’t realize it until that day.  That day, I had to bring my car back home, to the Ford dealership.  I miss my car.  I really, really miss it.  

Yes, after all these years and over 200,000 miles (254,939 miles to be exact), the car had some rough edges to it.  However, not once did it let me down. On 3 degree days, (+ or -) it started up without a problem – shown in photo.

I was told by a mechanic some time ago that this type of car was made to be disposable.  I didn’t quite grasp that concept but kept up on the oil changes, routine maintence and fixer uppers when needed.

This car had been with me since my divorce, 4 moves, school, 3 jobs, raising my kids, road trips, good times and bad times.  But to me, it was just a car.  It was always there and always reliable – it did not disappointment me and I didn’t think of it much.

Over the years, people told me that I needed or should have a new car because I deserved it.  I was very happy with my car.  We were a great fit together!  Why would I give it up?

The time did come that I had to let go.  It wasn’t exciting to get another Ford Focus – I wanted my friend.  I don’t know what happens to older cars that are traded in.  Deep in my crazy mind and heart, I hope that my car, my friend gets the respect and honor that it deserves.  It served me well since 2003.  Unfortunately, I am now only beginning to understand how lucky I was to have a car that long and how good it was to me.

I am adjusting to the car I just purchased.  It is nice, but I do have to say, it has a lot to live up to.  

I still miss my car very much. Please be good to my car and take care of it as it deserves. Thank you, Ford. 

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Reenie Com'on  Ford, you should at least give evem an oil change!  Great story!
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Ford Engineers really need to do a better job designing the 3rd Row Power Fold Seats with a locking mechanism. This has happened to me to many times and when I called Ford to comment I was told I was the first to bring this up.  Below are a few comments from a recent Ford Explorer forum...  I sure wish Ford had installed a switch that disables the 3rd row seat control. I had ours packed for a trip and when I was moving an item it bumped the seat controls and caused the seat to try and fold up on the cargo. Not a happy situation! That's funny- I was thinking exactly the same thing last weekend. We were on our way to the lake and I had a car full of family plus 2 friends for the kids. The third row driver's side seat was flat for storage and filled with stuff, including a cooler full of food. We stopped on the way to fill two 5-gallon gas cans for the boat. As I was wiggling the second can into position, something bumped the seat switch and everything started to move. You can imagine the brief, "Oh, #$%@!" moment when I thought the gas can was going to get folded onto the kid sitting in the third row seat. Fortunately, the resistance sensor stopped the process but I was thinking two things: 1) Those switches need to be recessed and/or relocated. I've bumped them before. 2) I would like a master on/off switch for them. And a third thing pops into mind: If those switches were moved, maybe they could have a storage bin with a door in that panel- that would be great! Yesterday we had a car full of family (kids in the back) and I was moving some items around in the cargo area when I bumped the switch that caused the whole thing to try to collapse. Kids were in the back and the damn thing literally squished them up against the second seats... Tears, screaming all sorts of hell broke loose. Luckily I was able to grab the head rests as they were going over - and literally ripped the whole seat backwards and broke it off the mechanism. This is a big problem, and I demand to know what ford is going to do about it. If it was my wife and not me, who knows how the kids would have got out of there??? This has happened in the past with luggage, but now that kids are involved I think this is a recall issue - very poor design. I commend your ideas on an override switch, but that shouldn't be needed - how about the seats reverse when you simply push the opposite button for which it is trying to do a the time of the issue? Ridiculous and unacceptable engineering. I guess when they dumped Volvo all the safety minds left too huh?!
Needs a 3rd Row Power Seats Disabling / Locking Switch
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